I mean there was a bit more too it than that (although I listened to the 2:14 clip).
He talks about reaching out to fomrer coaches to try and develop ways to get Tony to listen and ways to relate to him. the comment about taking the extra penalty (yelling at the ref) while already down a man talked about Tony's inability to control, or at least correctly channel himself and his 'street-fighter' personality. He references his believe that Tony needed more time putting in the hard yards in the AHL to develop some fortitude and maturity, which coach believes would have made ADA a more well rounded player than the guy we see now how can run a power play (or power plant) but maybe hasn't really got an all round game.
It seemed to tie in with everything else we've heard/read from NYR and other places. Tony is a good guy, you want to like him and 95% of the time hes fine. The issue is that the other 5% of the time he's off charts compared to most other people and so when he decides its time to go, no-one can talk him out of it and ends up making situations a lot worse, something that could be overcome with a bit more maturity and humility.
I listened to the clip as well. He says "it was tough" about twenty separate times but the only two examples provided are the comment about him going 70% in practice and the one about the ref.
Reaching out to former coaches is something that should be done as a matter of course in any professional sports organization but it should definitely be done when you're an AHL coach coaching a first round draft pick. I don't see anything unusual about that and I get the feeling if he were asked he would probably say DeAngelo isn't the only player he's done this for. My friend coaches high school baseball and reaches out to new kids' little league coaches routinely. That's not a groundbreaking thing.
As for the rest, wow an AHL coach saying a player would have benefitted from more time in the AHL. Shocking.
I have no desire to stand up for ADA because it's exhausting. What I will say is this thread headline seems designed to garner clicks which I guess is fine but if I were just listening to this pod driving home in my car there's nothing being said here about DeAngelo that would even prompt me to come post about it on here with you guys in the ADA thread.
Much ado about nothing IMO.